Pip Squeak Speech Pathology: Neuro-affirming support for anxious and neurodivergent kids

Looking for a neuro-affirming speech pathologist in Fremantle who truly understands anxious, autistic and ADHD children? Discover how Philippa “Pip” Udy from Pip Squeak Speech Pathology supports children through relationship-based, strengths-focused therapy that prioritises felt safety, communication, and genuine connection with families and schools.

For many families, communication challenges are about much more than speech.

A child may struggle to speak in class, avoid social situations, or shut down when overwhelmed. Some children work hard to “mask” their differences so they can keep up with others. Over time, that can lead to exhaustion, anxiety, and loss of confidence.

At Pip Squeak Speech Pathology, speech pathologist Philippa “Pip” Udy takes a different approach. Her work focuses on the connection between communication, anxiety, sensory needs, and nervous system regulation.

Working with families across Perth, including the Bicton area, Pip supports mostly neurodivergent children using a warm, relationship-based and neuro-affirming approach.

Rather than pushing children to perform, she focuses on helping them feel safe first.

Pip supports children through relationship-based, strengths-focused therapy that prioritises felt safety, communicaton and genuine connection with families and schools.

Communication and anxiety often go together

Pip says many of the children she works with experience anxiety linked to communication demands.

This may look like:

  • Fear of speaking in class
  • Avoiding unfamiliar people
  • Shutting down when misunderstood
  • Feeling overwhelmed by too much talking or social pressure
  • Exhaustion from masking differences

Instead of using “push through it” strategies, Pip works with the child’s nervous system.

Her sessions often include:

  • Low-demand, play-based interaction
  • Following the child’s lead
  • Reducing pressure
  • Supporting regulation before expecting communication

Pip explains that many neurodivergent children communicate more successfully when they feel calm, safe, and understood.

Therapy that includes the whole family

Pip works as a mobile-therapist which means, sessions often take place in the family home, school, or community setting.

This allows parents and caregivers to be part of the process from the beginning.

Rather than simply giving parents activities to practise, Pip spends time explaining the “why” behind strategies.

She believes parents feel more confident when they understand how their child’s nervous system and communication style work.

Parent coaching is built into sessions, not added on at the end.

Pip is also developing ChatterPath, an app designed to support parents of children aged 0–6 between therapy sessions.

A simple strategy for anxious children

One practical tip Pip shares with families is to reduce the number of questions asked during stressful moments.

Instead of saying:

  • “Are you okay?”
  • “You’re fine.”
  • “What’s wrong?”

She encourages parents to calmly describe what is happening around the child.

For example:

  • “It’s pretty loud in here.”
  • “We’re waiting in line.”
  • “There are lots of people around today.”

This type of calm narration can reduce pressure and help a child’s nervous system process the environment without additional demand.

Looking beyond behaviour

Pip also helps families understand the difference between anxiety that is situational and anxiety linked to communication or neurodivergence.

She looks at questions such as:

  • Does the child become anxious during high verbal demand?
  • Do transitions or noisy environments increase distress?
  • Does the child settle when demands are reduced?

When communication challenges sit underneath anxiety, children often need support from multiple professionals.

Pip regularly collaborates with psychologists and occupational therapists so that communication, emotional regulation, and sensory needs are not treated separately.

What progress really looks like

Pip says progress is not always dramatic or obvious.

Sometimes the biggest wins are small but meaningful.

For example:

  • A child re-engages after becoming overwhelmed
  • A child attempts something they previously avoided
  • A child feels safer expressing themselves
  • A family notices less stress at home

Her work is strongly strengths-based.

That means focusing on:

  • What motivates the child
  • The child’s natural interests
  • Genuine connection
  • Goals that matter to the family

Rather than generic praise, Pip aims to recognise specific strengths and ways of thinking.

Supporting communication between home and school

School can be one of the biggest stress points for neurodivergent children.

Pip describes her role as a bridge between families and schools.

Rather than taking sides, she helps everyone better understand the child’s communication profile and support needs.

This may include:

  • Helping parents prepare for meetings
  • Attending school meetings
  • Explaining communication differences
  • Suggesting realistic strategies teachers can implement

One strategy she recommends before school meetings is simple:

Write down:

  • Three things your child is good at
  • Three things your child needs to feel safe

This can help create a more collaborative conversation from the start.

Neuro-affirming support, with or without a diagnosis

Many of the children Pip works with are autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD. Some are still exploring assessment pathways.

Pip says families do not need a formal diagnosis before support begins.

She believes waiting years for a label can delay support children need right now.

Instead, she focuses on understanding how each child experiences the world.

Pip often uses simple, affirming language with children, such as:

  • “Some brains need movement to think.”
  • “Some brains find noisy places tiring.”

This helps children build self-understanding in a supportive and non-shaming way.

Every child needs a different approach

Pip does not use a standard therapy template.

Each child’s support plan is shaped by:

  • Their sensory profile
  • Communication style
  • Interests
  • Regulation needs
  • Family priorities

She says two children with the same diagnosis can need completely different supports.

One key message she shares with families is the difference between: “Won’t” and “can’t right now.”

For many neurodivergent children, a behaviour that looks oppositional may actually reflect overwhelm or lack of capacity in that moment.

This shift in thinking can completely change how adults respond.

How Pip Squeak Speech Pathology works with families

Most families begin with an initial consultation to better understand the child and family goals.

From there:

  • Sessions are usually weekly or fortnightly
  • Appointments run for 45–60 minutes
  • Therapy may occur at home, school, or in the community
  • Collaboration with other professionals is encouraged

There is currently an estimated wait of 3–6 months for new families, depending on availability and scheduling needs.

A thoughtful, relationship-based approach

At the centre of Pip’s work is genuine curiosity about each child.

Her focus is not simply on reducing differences or “fixing” behaviours. Instead, she aims to understand what may be getting in the way for the child and remove unnecessary barriers.

For families seeking warm, neuro-affirming speech pathology support in Perth, Pip Squeak Speech Pathology offers an approach that values communication, regulation, felt safety, and connection from the very beginning.

Practical details

Business namePip Squeak Speech Pathology

Clinician: Speech Pathologist Philippa (Pip) Uddy

Location: visiting daycares and homes across Perth’s south of the river suburbs, including Fremantle, Bicton, Palmyra, Melville, Cockburn, Hamilton Hill, South Fremantle, Coogee, Hamilton Hill, Spearwood, Beaconsfield, Attadale, Winthrop, Kardinya.

Referral: No referral is required.  

Current availability: Pip has a long waitlist and estimates a 3-6 month wait.  But when an appointment becomes available she sends it to everyone on the waitlist who has signaled that time/day preference. 

Bookings & enquiries: 

Unfortunately, Pip is fully booked for ongoing therapy sessions right now.

You are still welcome to add yourself to her waitlist for services, and Pip will contact you if a spot becomes available.

Website: https://www.pipsqueaktherapy.com/

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